STFU Parents: 6 Signs Of A Car Seat Fanatic On Facebook
One of the outcomes of today’s overzealous parents is the Niche Parent who focuses on one particular parenting skill. These are the parents who are MORE than happy (and if you’ve met one of them, you know what I mean) to discuss various breastfeeding tips or how to cook the perfect placenta soufflÃ© or how to get your baby to sleep through the night. I’m not sure exactly where the urge comes from, and if the people who fixate on these things are just natural overachievers or extremely bored (or a combinationÂ thereof), but I’ve noticed that a lot of moms of late have been leaping into action as advocates with parenting “expertise.”
Now, I’m not discrediting the people who are trained and/or certified in doing whatever it is they do. I’ve heard stories about lactation consultants and sleep therapists who have helped parents tremendously, and I’m not suggesting that advocates aren’t encouraging and necessary. We all need help from time to time, and it’s nice to know there’s someone out there who has a skill set specific to our needs in almost facet of life and health.
However, there’s a difference between being a trained specialist who helps people that actually want the help, and being a person who nags, lectures, or brags about knowing every freakin’ thing there is to know about cloth diapering. One of the areas of “expertise” that seems to be a growing field is the Car Seat Specialist. Everywhere I turn these days, there’s a mom fluent in car seat safety who is “instructing” her friends (and/or strangers) on the constantly-changing guidelines and regulations that actually drive many parents crazy. While some moms are mourning the loss of yet another car seat due to a recall, or buying yet another car seat to accommodate their 8-year-olds, or simply going about their business by practicing daily car seat safety, other moms are gleefully researching and espousing on every nugget they can find on up-to-the-minute car seat know-how.
As far as I can tell, there are two types of car seat fanatics: the parent who lectures on car seat safety, and the parent who gets off on car seat safety. They’re pretty different breeds, but both have a common interest in ensuring the protection of children in transport. And while I respect the safety stance, I find both types of “expert” to be overly emphatic and obsessive. I’ll be running a post on The Lecturer over on STFU, Parents, but first, let’s take a look at the mom who gets her kicks by talking about car seats as if they’re her new favorite toy.
1. Casual UpdatesÂ
The first way you can tell a person is a fanatic is if she randomly updates her status to include exciting tidbits that translate to, “I am in the same space as a car seat right now. :)”