Childrearing
Banning ‘Chasing Games’ Won’t Stop Kids From Getting Hurt
The letter says, among other things:
Chasing is dangerous because we lose control of our bodies and others get hurt, as they did today. Both children chasing and the children being chased have a responsibility to stop chasing games. If they cannot do this independently they are encouraged to see a supervisor.
The teacher indicated in the letter that one of the children in the group of six-year-olds got hurt or became upset while playing a chasing game. She recommends the children think of other ways to “play nicely at recess, for example freeze tag, imagination games, or use equipment.”
Isn’t freeze tag still a chasing game? Imagination games are okay – but I guess only the ones that don’t involve movement.
It’s impossible to totally prevent kids from getting hurt on a playground. Skinned knees and hurt feelings are kind of a part of growing up. Recess is where you begin for the first time to figure out how to be social on your own – without being under the watchful eye of a teacher. Yes, there is supervision, but it’s not the same as being confined in a classroom. We can’t shield our kids from everything that may hurt them. It’s important for them to learn to use their bodies in a physical way and what about the importance of some aerobic exercise?
Kids have to learn boundaries – and they do that through experiences like playing at recess. Growing up involves a bunch of trial and error and injuries. When I see letters like this, it makes me think that some adults have completely forgotten what it is to be a child. You have to allow kids to navigate stuff like this. They have to learn to play nicely – and they aren’t going to learn that by just ceasing certain types of play all together.
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