STFU Parents: Parents Who Approach Halloween With A Wicked Sense Of Humor
Over the past decade or so, I’ve watched the rules and regulations surroundingÂ HalloweenÂ evolve from slightly spooky to downright frightening. What used to be a small, rare-ish batch of unnecessarily paranoid parents who feared poisonous candy and razor blades in apples has now morphed into a larger, much less rare, community-oriented group of parents who would like to change the definition of Halloween “treats” altogether. Why offer chocolate when you could offer, say,Â carrot sticks, Necco Wafers, and Brach’s Lemon Drops?
Frankly, I’m surprised this mother didn’t also suggest some of my favorite classic Halloween treats: years-old rice cakes, fruit roll-ups made of seaweed, and everyone’s favorite snack — sprouts!, but I guess there’s always next year. Her “gentle request” of a neighborhood bulletin is similar to other notices floating around the internet (and the real world), suggesting that Halloween high jinks of the past are no longer accepted in the present. In 2015, parents paintÂ teal pumpkinsÂ to advertise their home as having non-food treats for children with allergies. (Extra-considerate!) In 2015, parents torture their children withÂ candy buyback programs. (Extra healthy!) And in 2015, it can appear as though parents no longer have a sense of humor about Halloween at all, especially if they work at Louisville Family Chiropractic.
Ugh, what a party that’s going to be. Is it just me, or is the scariest thing about Halloween this current incarnation of hand-wringing?Â Even my own former elementary school eliminated the beloved annual Halloween parade, which took place during school hours, simply because a few parents complained that Halloween isÂ the Devil’s ChristmasÂ and stomped their grumpy, selfish feet loudly enough. Thankfully, I’ve got proof that there are still plenty of parents out there who celebrate Halloween the way it was meant to be celebrated: with a positive attitude and bitching kept to a minimum.
I love it when parents not only make fun of their children in a polite way, but also share that mockery on social media. It’s a good lesson for theÂ uptight folksÂ who are too focused on shielding their kids’ eyes from horror displays at the grocery store to appreciate what Halloween is all about. Getting spooked is supposed to be fun, and even if we’re discouraging people from passing out candy with nuts (which, if I’m honest, is all absolutely delicious), it’s important to maintain a rational perspective on the holiday. Let’s not takeÂ HalloweenÂ too seriously. Instead, just approach the day with a sense of humor. In fact, if you approachÂ everyÂ day with a sense of humor, you might wind up posting something amusingly horrifying like this and get away with it:
I’m seriously considering printing this out and framing it. Thanks for this extremely weird scare, Brendyn. Little Mia is just adorable.