Childrearing
After Man’s Arrest For Involuntary Manslaughter, You’ll Think Twice About Hugging A Baby
The death of the toddler happened a year ago and Kemp was not charged until now, and If convicted, Kemp faces up to five years in prison.
Not to get all Nancy Grace about this, but I think most adults know that toddlers are delicate things and you have to be careful around them. On the other hand, the idea that you could hug a child so hard that it causes asphyxiation flabbergasts me, because I truly don’t think anyone hugging a kid does so with any malicious intent. I know that hugs can become violent on playgrounds between kids as a form of roughhousing but I have never heard of a case like this involving an adult and a child. I think back to how many times I grabbed my own kids and gave them a huge hug and said “I’m going to squeeze you to pieces!” as a joke and maybe it was dangerous.
This story is so sad to me because not only did this family lose their baby, I’m sure Kemp, if he didn’t mean any malicious intent (and at this point, it’s hard for me to wrap my mind around him knowing his hug could kill the baby) feels so beyond horrible right now I can’t even fathom it. This poor family. Kemp has been released on a $10,000 bond.
I know we don’t know all the details in this case yet and sure, we could find out that Kemp was violent or knew what he was doing, but for now this just sounds like a horrible fluke accident that resulted in the death of a child and could possibly result in something new parents have to be freaked out about. Most of us know not to throw babies up in the air, or wrestle with them too hard, or jostle them too roughly, but now we can add a reminder that toddlers and babies should only be hugged very gently to that list.
The family had created a donation page to help pay for Jaylen’s funeral expenses that has since ceased accepting donations. I feel so awful for this family.
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