8 Reasons ‘Luxury Mommy And Me Retreats’ Are Divorced From Reality
Vacation becomes something of a chore once kids are involved. More than once I’ve returned from a “relaxing” family trip and uttered the tired line, “I need a vacation to recover from my vacation.” That’s probably because I’m one of the poors, though, and I can’t afford a luxury getaway likeÂ Maria Rocco‘sÂ Me And Mom in TuscanyÂ retreat. Yes, that’s right: you can take your kids to Tuscany for a special mommy and me getaway.
According to Forbes,Â Me And MomÂ is an “exclusive retreat and summer camp” offering you and your child the chance to experience what creator Maria Rocco calls “real travel” as you do yoga, taste wine, and relax by the pool. Oh, you can also take excursions to see Italy, if you’re into that sort of thing. There’s one other thing about this getaway, though; something I find sort of odd considering it’s marketed as a mom and me trip: you don’t actually have to spend any time at all with your kid(s) if you don’t want to. From the Forbes write-up:
Momâ€™s stay at a stunning 8 bedroom villa, a short walking distance from the childrenâ€™s accommodations. Children stay at a renovated farmhouse that provides room inside and out for the children to explore…Â Momâ€™s are offered a flexible range of services and activities that are designed to let them relax and enjoy their Tuscan adventure, while knowing that their kids are having just as much fun. Opportunities for shared memories are also encouraged by organizing combined activities and excursions for both the momâ€™s and her children.
So, you can go to Italy with your kids, sleep in, get pampered, and never have to actually see them. Is this a normal thing that happens when rich people vacation? I don’t know about you, but my vacations are not at all like that. In fact, I’d argue with Maria Rocco that the hell we experience is the “REAL” travel. Here’s what vacation looks like for this mom and her brood:
1. Gather the WHOLE family.
There is no “mom and me” about it. We saved up for this. This is our one trip for the year. Everyone is going. Everyone. We will stuff someone in the trunk if we have to, which brings me to point #2…