The Truth About What Life Is Like Before And After Having A Baby
Life after baby: Heaven and earth ain’t got nothin’ on a new baby. Your girls are suddenly not at the top of your list.
Now, this is one aspect of life before and after baby that will get better. But we’re not going to lie: those first months or even year after becoming a mom? Your friendships are going to suffer. You might even lose some friends, sad as it is. Your friends with kids of their own will understand, and they will send a weekly text to check in and let you know they’re there. They won’t even get offended when you don’t reply until three days later. Your friends without kids? That’s a harder sell. It’s SO HARD to explain what it’s like to someone who’s never experienced it. And that isn’t their fault! You shouldn’t hold that against them. Just know that your all-day lady dates will be on the back burner for a bit, and hope that your group is patient and understanding.