Jenna Dewan Tatum Reveals How She Keeps Her Sex Life Exciting

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In marriage, it’s important to make sure you leave room for yourself. That’s why Jenna Dewan Tatum makes her sex life with husband Channing Tatum about herself, as well as her hubby. “I think all women should keep it exciting for themselves. People always ask, ‘Do you do anything to keep it fresh for your man?’ I hate that question. I’m like, ‘No. Why is it for your man0?’ I do things to keep it fresh for myself. The lingerie I buy is not for him necessarily. It’s for us and for myself. If you feel sexy, then it’s good for you,” she says in an interview with Redbook. So true!

It is hugely important for women to feel sexy and satisfied in their relationships.

Sure it’s great to please your significant other, but pleasing yourself will be pleasing for both of you.

Dewan Tatum, who has been married to Channing since 2009 (can you believe it?), is super busy. She is gearing up to be a host on NBC’s new show World of Dance, a new competition show with Jennifer Lopez. She will not only be the host, but also act as a “mama bear and backstage cheerleader” to the dancers competing on the show, kind of like a mentor. In addition to being mama bear to the contestants on the show, she is actually a mama to daughter Everly who is three. Between her busy schedule and her handsome hubby’s busy schedule, it can be hard to find quality time. But after over ten years together, they still manage to make it work.

“There’s a beauty in being two busy people because we get a lot of time to miss each other. To continue to miss someone after so many years is kind of a blessing in disguise.” Jenna and Channing are also teaming up to produce a webseries based on Step Up, the film that they co-starred in way back in 2006. It was during the filming of the that movie that they met and fell in love. Say it with me…”awww!”

After over ten years together, Dewan Tatum says that the biggest challenge she’s had to overcome in the relationship is communication. “You have to be okay with the other person becoming defensive, to let them be emotional and accept that it won’t be okay for a while.”