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Daddy Issues: Joseph Heller’s Daughter Has Never Read ‘Catch-22’
In her 40s, in 1996, Ms. Heller was “demolished†to read the manuscript of his book “Something Happenedâ€, a largely autobiographical novel that she describes as “569 pages of biting, caustically wrapped smoldering rage.†In its pages, she found his “loathing†for her laid bare. In a chapter he had titled “My Daughter Is Unhappy,†she found “years of verbatim conversations,†and reeled to read this summation of the narrator’s daughter: “She sometimes seems so barren of hope that I find myself grieving silently alongside her, as though at an empty coffin or grave in which her future is lying dead already.†When she confronted her father, asking, “How could you write about me that way?†he responded, “What makes you think you’re interesting enough to write about?†Ouch.
Criticisms from parents are difficult enough to endure in your own home when you’re a kid, but seeing them woven into stories for the entire literary world to consume can obviously leave lasting scars. Catch-22 may be one of the great literary works of the 20th century, but even great art can’t eclipse the painful words from critical parents.
(photo: nytimes.com)