Twinning: I Kept My Twins In Cribs Until They Were 4 Years Old For My Sanity
Having twins can be the most amazing experience of your life. It can also cause you to wake up in the morning wishing you were someone else. Twinning offers an honest depiction of life with twins from a mom who tries to keep things somewhere in the middle.
For a lot of twin parents, transitioning their twins from cribs to beds can be a nightmare. This is one of the few areas of raising twins where Iâ€™m lucky enough to say that I had no problemâ€” because I put it off as long as I possibly could, until my twins were almost four years old.
I actually got that advice from veteran twin moms who warned that the end of cribs in a shared nursery is the end of a peaceful bedtime. They told me stories about spending two hours after bedtime putting their toddler twins back in bed or spending an hour laying with each twin until they fell asleep. One mom told me to imagine a slumber party for 2-year-olds and said thatâ€™s what her nights were like after moving her twins from cribs to beds. I was soldâ€”we were sticking with cribs for as long as possible.
Early on, Iâ€™d realized that containment was essential to a motherâ€™s sanity while raising twins. Bouncy seats, swings, ExerSaucers, play zones, strollers and cribsâ€”these were all my best friends. If your kids are in a safe place they canâ€™t get out of, your chances of having a moment of peace or getting something done rise dramatically. And as far as containment goes, cribs win the Most Valuable prize because your twins spend the most time in them.
As my twins grew from infants to toddlers, I tried to make sure they enjoyed being in their cribsâ€”they had little music boxes they could turn on and off themselves, soft books, snuggly stuffed animals, and personalized toddler pillows that they loved to lay their heads on. We were good for a while.
Then the escape artist struck.